tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3481762892485619499.post5195493792962788547..comments2023-10-31T11:28:51.952-04:00Comments on the world according to me: How KathyB! lost her sparkle (part 1)Kathy B!http://www.blogger.com/profile/13932652254033295435noreply@blogger.comBlogger65125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3481762892485619499.post-72128838194466523482009-11-09T16:34:05.778-05:002009-11-09T16:34:05.778-05:00Oh honey! I am so so sorry to hear this. Sending...Oh honey! I am so so sorry to hear this. Sending you lots of love!Meghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12430906729582358085noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3481762892485619499.post-86788957805932908942009-11-08T08:54:14.216-05:002009-11-08T08:54:14.216-05:00Kathy, obvioulsy I'm getting to this post very...Kathy, obvioulsy I'm getting to this post very late but I still wanted to say I'm sorry for your loss.Sandyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11462135507379897869noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3481762892485619499.post-66244514923355931942009-11-06T17:04:48.966-05:002009-11-06T17:04:48.966-05:00Kathy - I lack the words but not the empathy &...Kathy - I lack the words but not the empathy & compassion. I'm sorry that you're going through this.heidihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14413886314215834748noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3481762892485619499.post-24579136345485972022009-11-06T12:53:03.901-05:002009-11-06T12:53:03.901-05:00Oh, Kathy, my heart is breaking for you... nothing...Oh, Kathy, my heart is breaking for you... nothing I can say will make you feel better, I know! But I will say that you did nothing to cause this, and in your head you know it, when your heart feels better - which it will eventually - not that it will ever go away completely, but it will get better, you will know that. Please know I have a hug in my heart for you, and tears in my eyes.<br />Love, LorieLorie Shewbridgehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17021526379136899314noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3481762892485619499.post-46726790351303963232009-11-04T01:29:29.709-05:002009-11-04T01:29:29.709-05:00Man, that sucks. I wish you didn't have to go...Man, that sucks. I wish you didn't have to go through that.<br /><br />Not that it makes anything better for you, but there have been a couple of months lately when I thought I might be pregnant, but got my period not long after thinking, "I do NOT want to have another baby." Yeah, even though we're trying... *sigh*. I know that we'll love any baby that happens to get past my thoughts, but that doesn't mean there isn't another side to the beginning of some stories.<br /><br />Hang in there, and try to be gentle with yourself in the meantime.Shanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12434884811193988493noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3481762892485619499.post-16988725338943214592009-11-03T15:16:05.193-05:002009-11-03T15:16:05.193-05:00I'm so sorry, KathyB! Truly.I'm so sorry, KathyB! Truly.countryfriedmamahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06087065955221754381noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3481762892485619499.post-36541156176022249542009-11-03T15:14:48.623-05:002009-11-03T15:14:48.623-05:00So very sorry.So very sorry.Kimhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11117084634845147874noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3481762892485619499.post-76584049209579213162009-11-02T16:13:15.895-05:002009-11-02T16:13:15.895-05:00I had noticed your absence and thought that maybe ...I had noticed your absence and thought that maybe you were just busy with life. I'm so sorry for your loss.<br /><br />(((HUGS)))Nikihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09936343470015553888noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3481762892485619499.post-49127771155322303742009-11-02T14:18:23.187-05:002009-11-02T14:18:23.187-05:00I am so sorry Kathy. I can't imagine how this...I am so sorry Kathy. I can't imagine how this feels! Here's a giant hug and slice of pie for you, even though I know it won't do much.The Blonde Duckhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00085499120024055465noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3481762892485619499.post-61091656797744922962009-11-02T13:33:41.589-05:002009-11-02T13:33:41.589-05:00It's amazing, isn't it, how often times we...It's amazing, isn't it, how often times we feel so alone in this world when in reality we've multitudes of sisters in understanding? The above posts are wonderful, you've got a fantastic support group. Take care of yourself first and foremost and find comfort in knowing you are never, ever alone.Bhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17073988957028528791noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3481762892485619499.post-15469568516214905102009-11-02T13:28:32.324-05:002009-11-02T13:28:32.324-05:00awwww I feel for you. I had wondered where you ha...awwww I feel for you. I had wondered where you had gone. <br /><br />I understand somewhat because I cried buckets when I found out I was pregnant with O. It's amazing how you can go from desperately wishing it never happened to desperately wishing for it to succeed. <br /><br />I think we're just human. <br /><br />Hugs to you. Hope things turn brighter for you soon.Patriciahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17943532025439642674noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3481762892485619499.post-92153802911722976112009-11-02T11:13:15.463-05:002009-11-02T11:13:15.463-05:00Kathy, I am so sorry. I understand your feelings ...Kathy, I am so sorry. I understand your feelings - I lost one last summer before we were sure of what we wanted. Your feelings are normal - please know that. You are allowed to find happiness in other areas. Please let me know if I can help in any way. TracyTracynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3481762892485619499.post-13301884972933597582009-11-02T10:35:55.869-05:002009-11-02T10:35:55.869-05:00My heart is breaking for you. Losing this baby has...My heart is breaking for you. Losing this baby has nothing to do with you, and I think you said so well what ANY of us would be thinking if we surprisingly got pregnant when we were planning on being done.KatBouskahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11556451375792958743noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3481762892485619499.post-34027682124280864382009-11-02T08:02:13.458-05:002009-11-02T08:02:13.458-05:00Our best, happy, instantly joyous behavior doesn&...Our best, happy, instantly joyous behavior doesn't determine what life brings, nor does it earn us anything. Neither does our negative reaction to life earn us 'bad outcome.' I, too lost a baby. I, also had a shocking surprise of a pregnancy 7 years after my LAST child. Took me 5 months to even accept it. God is so GRACIOUS. He knows our hearts. We shouldn't beat ourselves up for what God doesn't. His mercy flows. I'm glad you showed up! Time will heal... like CK said.<br />:)Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05678325161211460823noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3481762892485619499.post-82319436137937927542009-11-02T07:39:33.737-05:002009-11-02T07:39:33.737-05:00Let me begin by saying I am so sorry. I know words...Let me begin by saying I am so sorry. I know words do not make it better, but know that there are people in this world sending you kind thoughts and virtual hugs.<br /><br />You are allowed to feel everything you described because life is messy and we are complex, complicated creatures. Your loss is not lessened because you had the audacity to be human and doubt. Nope, not one little bit. <br /><br />Again, I am so very sorry.Claudya Martinezhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17034216831504207496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3481762892485619499.post-22736563550588110522009-11-01T23:55:03.491-05:002009-11-01T23:55:03.491-05:00oh Kathy I am so sorry! I am praying for you! Yo...oh Kathy I am so sorry! I am praying for you! You know it isn't your fault. I am sure you didn't wish the baby away and even if you had that wouldn't make the baby go away! I hope you know that! God had a purpose for the baby and maybe it was to help you for the short period of time.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3481762892485619499.post-45250749429521406632009-11-01T23:08:41.550-05:002009-11-01T23:08:41.550-05:00Oh, Kathy, I'm so sorry for your loss. And is ...Oh, Kathy, I'm so sorry for your loss. And is a loss, no matter how your feelings vacillated from day to day. A precious possibility gone. But I pray that one day your heart won't feel the loss quite so painfully; just a small ache of remembrance.Pop and Icehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09293232401852452071noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3481762892485619499.post-64069655963968848772009-11-01T22:21:07.540-05:002009-11-01T22:21:07.540-05:00My Dear Friend, there are no words, only thoughts....My Dear Friend, there are no words, only thoughts. There is a time for everything. This just wasn't the right time.<br />You have managed to bring such joy to your bloggers. We will be here when you are ready.<br />Thoughts and Prayers.Mary K Brennanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16551895463680549205noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3481762892485619499.post-51457181534421182212009-11-01T21:39:29.275-05:002009-11-01T21:39:29.275-05:00Jesus - please touch Kathy and her family. You ar...Jesus - please touch Kathy and her family. You are the Prince of Peace and only you can give us back peace and any form of joy during a time of great sadness. Touch her, Lord, and give her peace about the situation. Her baby is with you and while she will one day see her baby again and eternally be with You, right now she needs strength to be with her children on earth. <br /><br /><br />In Jesus Precious and most Perfect Name....Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3481762892485619499.post-85868551448062373582009-11-01T14:49:27.807-05:002009-11-01T14:49:27.807-05:00*hugs*
I don't think there is one reader here ...*hugs*<br />I don't think there is one reader here that wouldn't do anything you needed, wouldn't wait until you were ready, wouldn't mind being the ear and shoulder you need.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3481762892485619499.post-71422685112989874372009-11-01T11:54:13.736-05:002009-11-01T11:54:13.736-05:00You need a HUG !!!
Now, pick yourself up. Things ...You need a HUG !!!<br /><br />Now, pick yourself up. Things happen. Life is crazy. Like a roller coaster ... up and down we go. <br /><br />Be sad for what could have been. Now, be happy for what you have. Find joy in each day. <br /><br />You have kittens and a chauffeur business that depend on you ...<br /><br />Basically, what I'm telling you is I'm so sorry that this happened to you. Take time to be sad but also after a while ... remember what you do have. Pick yourself up and enjoy your life !!!JChttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13434534658681194289noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3481762892485619499.post-5262812712639063522009-10-31T22:12:57.873-04:002009-10-31T22:12:57.873-04:00I'm so sorry. You didn't wish the baby awa...I'm so sorry. You didn't wish the baby away that way I'm sure. And maybe it wasn't the baby's time. . . the baby wasn't ready to come and you weren't ready either. God knows our hearts. He knows our pain and he knows what we think isn't always what we mean. I wish I could say something more profound. I can't. I can't even scratch the surface of what you're feeling. Just know. . . we are all here for you, if only virtually.Lisa @ Boondock Ramblingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11430994283914399581noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3481762892485619499.post-46643328340208497762009-10-31T20:39:12.488-04:002009-10-31T20:39:12.488-04:00Oh Kathy - why do we women beat up on ourselves fo...Oh Kathy - why do we women beat up on ourselves for being human? Every change in our lives can bring both happy and negative feelings.. it is what we do with those feelings that matter. <br /><br />I'm so sorry for your lose. I'm even more sorry you are beating yourself up for ANY emotion that you may be feeling or have felt. <br /><br />You didn't wish this child away. And even if you did - that is not what caused a miscarriage. <br /><br />Please give yourself a hug from me. Grieve if you need to. Sing if you want. <br /><br />LindaThe Good Cookhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01249986191289837440noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3481762892485619499.post-36120706947496704972009-10-31T16:31:16.066-04:002009-10-31T16:31:16.066-04:00Please don't feel like you've wished this ...Please don't feel like you've wished this baby away. That simply isn't how it works.<br /><br />I am so sorry for your loss and confusion. I'm so touched by your raw honesty.<br /><br />Feel better when you can and feel bad when you need to (but don't let it consume you!)<br /><br />(((Hugs)))mommakinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18138745092234541349noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3481762892485619499.post-33390427037381680732009-10-31T12:51:36.128-04:002009-10-31T12:51:36.128-04:00Oh sweetie, I'm so sorry. Wish we had known to...Oh sweetie, I'm so sorry. Wish we had known to begin supporting you sooner. You are in my prayers before the Healer. <br />Hugs and love. And hoping that one day it's better.evenshinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05216202339896997202noreply@blogger.com